We don’t want church to just be good practical suggestions. You can find those on TV, online, in O Magazine (kidding…). Church should be about Jesus and the gospel. So, why is Arrowhead doing a series on family? Here’s how I answered that question on Sunday:
1. Godly families are God’s design, and so they honor God. The family is a picture of God’s relationship to us. He cares about it. Father to child, brother to brother/sister. There are issues of legacy in the Bible that directly tie to God’s story of legacy with a group of people. God refers to Christ and the church as husband and wife. The picture is everywhere in Scripture.
2. Godly families operating under God’s principles open the door for the supernatural. Family is so hard. Very few of us have healthy models. Over half of first time marriages end in divorce. The stats go up for 2nd marriages. That leaves us with some false ideas of how families work. And the ones that do stay together generally don’t operate from a Biblical worldview.
Because we’re so used to hearing stories of divorce and broken homes and dysfunctional homes and family members who don’t speak anymore we eliminate the power of God from the equation.
3. Family is forever. Biblically speaking, you don’t move on to another family. You are always connected. Practically speaking, you can move out and lose contact but you are still a member of your family.
That means:
-Who you marry is a major decision.
-Your commitment to be a parent is permanent.